Saw this comment on my friend's blog.
by beholder. not too sure who it is.
but found it quite inspirational.

"
I don’t think we can forget the people we love, and experience what some people call closure. We can come to terms with it, but not turn numb. There’s no reason or rhyme but emotion, pure, simple, human emotion. Sadness is unpleasant, but isn’t wrong. Scissoring the past, censoring what we hold dear and blocking out the truth is an understandable reaction, but a step backwards."

owells.
i guess that sums it all.